New research related to mirror neurons has confirmed the fact that if you observe someone engaged in a certain activity at the moment, then you activate exactly the same neurons as the person at work. Thus, by simply remaining aloof, you are able to feel and experience analogous emotions.
So our neurons mirror those of others. In other words, if someone eats ice cream in front of you, their neurons produce a specific taste. When we observe this person, our neurons activate analogous sensations.
Imagine what our lives would be like if we could look in the mirror and change what we see in it. Perhaps this will help people seriously improve their lives and transform their own perceptions.
But since we can’t do that, we still have a chance to improve our children’s lives.
These are little mirrors that reflect our behavior. Children visually project the image of those in front of them. If you want to see your parent image, then just look at the living mirror you have – your own child.
The good news for parents is that they can control their behavior and emotions to positively influence their children. They will be able to feel better through your efforts. And this is the main task of every parent.
We are born with this ability and highly dependent on it. As a child, we are a reflection of what we see in the people closest to us – in our parents. The most important thing is not what they say, but what their brain projects and, accordingly, what information they convey to us.
This can be a salvation for those parents whose children are far from the most pleasant character. That is why it is so important to be happy people.
The main task of the parent is to focus not on the child’s problems, but on his own.
Many recommendations of psychologists suggest this approach. You must devote time to the upbringing of the child in the same way as yourself. After all, the children are you. Before it’s too late, you have a chance to change their worldview, their feelings, and much more.
It is important to be true to yourself because as a parent you are facing a mirror that reflects everything you do and feel. As soon as you do a certain act or experience a series of emotions, your child picks it up and reproduces it independently in his life.
Mirror neurons never lie. Your thoughts, feelings and behavior will be reflected by the children.
The ability of mirror neurons, which you cannot control in any way, can work in your favor. Or rather for the sake of the children. On the Internet, you can find many videos that confirm the workability of this technique. You may be inspired by them and start taking concrete steps to build your children’s well-being.
Remember that your behavior “talks” and your child’s mirror neurons are always “listening.”